Dear Captain Awkward,
One year ago my father passed away. It was a several year battle against cancer that he eventually lost, and I still miss him deeply.
My mother has struggled in the aftermath. She has been overwhelmed with loneliness and sank into a depression. She loved my father deeply and he was her rock, both emotionally and in a more practical sense (bills, caretaking, house upkeep).
Lately she has struggled more deeply because a chronic pain issue flared up. She has been to numerous doctor appointments, tried multiple medications and treatments, with no improvements. The medications make her groggy and confused, and she has been having trouble sleeping on top of everything. It seems like her life is a waking nightmare.
I love my mom very much, but I am struggling with how to help her. I am an only child, and we have few extended family members…
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